Help isn't like this.

Help isn't portraying yourself to be better than others, and making them seems as if they are nutters.

Help isn't trying to force people to think like you do.

Help isn't wanting people to do the things just because you want them do.

If your definition of help is like this, I would very much rather you DON'T help me, period.

I'm tired of squabbling and trying to understand the way you think, why you do things the way you do.

Tired, tired, tired, tired's the word.